on explanations

I've recently discovered that it can be quite difficult to explain things to patients.  Or maybe it's just difficult to find the right words quickly to make complex problems easier to understand.  Or perhaps it's that they ask a lot of random questions that never occurred to me before the conversation started and I am no longer good at thinking on my feet while talking and remaining calm.  I didn't think that I would find that intimidating, but I do!

Let me explain it this way.  It's kind of similar to when you just know that your preceptor is about to pimp you on something, and it turns out that it is actually about something that you reviewed recently. Hooray! The start of a thought boldly blurts itself out your mouth with confidence, but about five words in you realize you might not have gathered enough thoughts yet and so you stall out a little and try to gun it to the end, but the end turns out to be a mangled jumble of incoherent thoughts.  At which point I usually semifrownsmile and awkwardly look from side to side as though maybe my brain was accidentally placed on the desk next to me the whole time.  This is the kind of behavior, as you can imagine, that instantly gives your patients a strong sense of confidence in you. 

I think that I may possibly be getting a teeny bit better at this particular challenge.  But really, the bar was pretty low because before my minimal improvements I just fervently prayed that no questions would be asked and my words would just be wholeheartedly accepted as the gospel truth and we could all just go along on our merry ways.  Which was ridiculous, especially since I mostly couched all of my patient discussion in heavy self-doubt and pre-apologies for being just a lowly, meek, baby PA student. and then excusing myself to go find a real person.

In small slices, here are a few of the interactions that have occurred recently that didn't completely fall apart in my novice hands:

I sat with a patient's wife in the waiting room and patiently re-explained the heart catheterization procedure that we had just done on her husband and reviewed what we had found and what the next steps would be even though I was scared that I might say the wrong thing.

I talked with a motorcycle man about risk factor modification for the prevention of future cardiac events, and I told him I always wear my helmet whilst scooting and that I fully expected him to as well.

I explained the different ideas we had on the etiology of a heart attack my patient had had the night before, and what we had found when were paged to come in to the lab late at night to open up her coronary arteries, even though I had to explain that we weren't exactly sure what had occurred.

I listened to a patient struggle to describe his understanding of what had just happened to him, and I worked to help him find a better hold of that information, even when it took me a long time to find the right combination of words.

I held my patients hand and reassured her while the anesthesiologist administered IV sedatives when she told me she was afraid she wouldn't wake up, even though I couldn't one hundred percent tell her that she would. 

I'm not sure those tiny interactions describe it, but very slowly I think I am moving in the right direction.  Some days it feels like all I can do is stand still to not move backwards, and I try to accept that as progress.  But on other days, I know I'll be fine. 

realizing long dormant dreams

HA.  That title is way too solemn for what this actual post is about, which of course is nintendo.  I stumbled upon a picture on the internet a while ago of a person playing Mario Kart 64 out in the beauty of nature, projected against a blank wall.  What more could a girl with a super nerd fiance ask for?!  And, more importantly, what more could a super nerdy fiance give a girl who would ask for such things?!

Well we planned and plotted, and packed up a giant haul of things to bring up the street to Joe's house where it had been decided that the shenanigans would go down.  I brought the meat and cheese, and JP hoofed the heavy suitcase.  It was not lost on us that we both had extremely light weight and powerful wireless machines in our pockets that had far more power then all the heavy stuff we were shleping about, but nostalgia knows no weight my friends, so up that hill we did walk.

After the food had been consumed and the sun was just setting, we slung some extension cords out Joe's bedroom window (brown to match the brick work all sneaky style), and let the magic begin.

After a few rounds we realized a fan would be necessary to blow away all the mosquitoes that we couldn't swat away while in the throws of karting.  I'm sure you understand how these things can be.

And in the end, it was everything I ever thought it could be, I wish you could have been there to experience it for yourself because it was glorious.

house on an island

Is there anything more glorious that staying in a house on an island for a week?  That laid back, serene, salty aired goodness to soak up.  Bicycling to the market in the morning (and afternoon, and evening, it's a Walsh vacation, we need copious nacho supplies, come on!), barbequing on the grill or making fresh lobster, reading in a rocking chair on a screened in porch safe from all those ravenous mosquitoes.  Delighting in the exhaustion of a pup who ran all his energy out in the nearby woods and ocean.  Playing cards by candlelight.  Swimming in the frigid water and skipping rocks on the shore.  It was bliss.  We all came and went between work and friends and other obligations. and it was just the perfect gathering spot for relaxation with some of the loveliest people I know. 

My pops and I on the ferry 

Yin likes to travel in style.

 

 Haircuts were had.

 

Rocks were skipped.

Pups were refreshed.

 

Bicycles were biked.

Lobsters were tastily steamed by one brave Emma.

 

 

Naps were attempted.

Sunsets were enjoyed.

fourth!

This time last year I was cramming a ridiculous amount of immunology into what felt like a pea-sized brain.  In stead of that mess, I got to spend this year's festivities with JP, Joe, Emma and our pups.  Next to a lake!  Grilling foods!  Playing bocce ball!

My favorite part may have been introducing Oliver to fireworks though.  He was terrified and army crawled from me to JP to Joe, and dove head first into Joe's armpit to hide.  Joe wrapped himself around O like a protective straight jacket and together they rolled over to the wall and Joe let Oliver squish between him and the wall, covering his eyes with his arm, and letting him peak out occasionally.  It was the most adorable thing ever.  After the fireworks finished Oliver popped out as if to say, ain't no thing guys, I was just pretending. What a loon.